A Moment I Won’t Forget (Even If I Forgot to Take Pictures!)

I recently visited Lily Pad West Gallery in Milwaukee, and wow what an awesome vibe.

To be honest, I walked in with a little anxiety. My ADHD tends to make me second-guess myself in places like this. I worry my questions might sound off or that I’m not “gallery enough.” So usually, I keep to myself, quietly take it all in, and slip out without saying much.

But this time? Totally different.

Julia and Catherine were so welcoming. Their warmth broke through my nerves and gave me the space to share my story and even ask some of those questions I’ve been carrying around for a while. Their positive feedback, especially around my art and how I’ve been integrating Augmented Reality, was a huge confidence boost. I walked out inspired and reminded that sharing what makes your work different can lead to the best conversations.

And yep… I forgot to take pictures. I hesitated at first because I wasn’t sure if the artists or the gallery allowed photos, and by the time I was deep in conversation, the moment passed. Now I kinda wish I had snapped a few! It was a powerful visit.

So here’s a quick reminder for anyone visiting a gallery (especially if you're like me and overthink the “rules”):

• Ask before taking photos. Some galleries are super chill, some have signs, and others might prefer no photos at all—especially if the artist is present. When in doubt, just ask.

• Don’t be afraid to speak up. Whether it’s a question about the work, the artist, or even how a piece was made, chances are the folks at the gallery want to talk to you. That’s why they’re there.

• Give space—literally and emotionally. If others are viewing a piece, try not to hover or block the view. And if someone seems deep in thought or emotional about a piece, let them have that moment.

• Support can look like many things. Can’t buy a piece? Grab a card, follow the artist on Instagram, or share their work with a friend. That energy comes back around.

Big shoutout again to Lily Pad West for making a space where I felt seen, heard, and creatively recharged. If you’re ever in Milwaukee, go check them out. And if you're an artist or art lover who hesitates like I do sometimes, just remember: the art world is so much better when we actually show up and connect.